March 31st, 2009
Once again its on.
I am feeling somewhat generous today, so I decided to share some basic yet highly effective pimformation in regards to achieve success in any endeavor that involves multiple parties.
This ideology , known as the Win Win situation , was actually developed by the Harvard School Of Business in the later part of the 20th Century.
Yet and still, there truly is nothing really new under the sun, so since we are touching on subjects which stem from the Oldest Profession On Planet Earth, we can classify it as economic fodder from the first PHD’s of Economics who were the first to
PROFESS (Sell The Game)!
Lets start off with the most basic fundamental rule of thumb, known as
Self Preservation.It indicates that any individual that you will ever meet or have ever met is primarily thinking about their own personal self interest above all things.
Some believe that what is known as altruism which is the state of being SELFLESS as opposed to SELFISH is a noble state of existence, yet it has been concluded by most half way rational philosophers that Altruism itself is in fact an act and state of being which is beneficial to the individual with the stance.
In more down to earth terms, if you give a bum a dollar on the street, you receive a good feeling of knowing that you helped someone in need, so you actually took an action according to YOUR OWN NEED.
Now , we will get somewhat mathematical and check the flow of the energy in motion , known to you as E-Motion.
Strengthening ones own position at the expense of another, is a direct indication of Negative Emotion. that does NOT mean good or bad, nice or mean, it simply states that the emotion is based on the desire to receive, which is called subtraction, or TAKE AWAY.
On the opposite side of the spectrum, Strengthening the position of another at ones own expense is a sign of positive emotion, which is addition or a ADD TO.
Taking this into account, the most effective solution in all transactions of humans is the Win Win situation which entails that both or all parties seek to strengthen each others position at their own expense so that no expense is lost and each gains,
known to you as
Mutual Profit/Benefit.
While an individual may choose to tune in to another source of valid economic advice from economic experts, I will keep it simple for you by touching on the first order of business, which is that between a Man and Woman, which actually results in the creation of LIFE if left to its natural course.
From what I know, a successful relationship between a man and woman consists of two whole individuals, who’s affinity for each other, outweigh their need for each other. In more simplistic terms, the way to success is if both parties come into a situation looking at ways to give and benefit the other.
if both parties are seeking to give, then each will then also receive by default.
In a PERFECT world, this would be the working scenario, and perhaps one we can work towards should we desire such an existence.
Due to the Nature Of the Beast, which is one based on
CONSUMPTION, individuals will usually be found coming into a relationship situation looking for what they can GET from the other and attempt to get the most while giving the least required in exchange. Its capitalism at its root, or as they used to say in the first east,
Thinking With Your Belly!
If one or both parties in the relationship are seeking to receive, there will eventually be a conflict of interest as one or both parties are primarily focused on having their own needs met, which again, is based on self preservation.
The psychological experts usually trace these tendencies to inadequacy , which is usually developed through emotional needs being unmet or neglected in the developmental childhood years of a persons life.
Its what leads to consumerism, as money and the things that it represents for an individual is always tied to some form of an emotional gratification, such as power, respect, status, security, love, abundance, and all the other feelings one is able to experience. Let the record reflect that if anything that a person seeks on the outside is to create a better feeling on the inside, that outward person place or thing becomes known as a OBJECT OF DESIRE, which is usually attached to some terms and conditions which require an investment on the part of the person seeking to receive.Once again, when it comes to self preservation, which is also known as self interest, you will usually find some form of best interest consideration from the possessor of the outward object, or issuer of the funds required to acquire along with a promissory note of repayment over time which is in the BEST INTEREST of the lender, hence you have the term interest rate and possessed by ones possessions.
More on that later, so stay tuned.
For this particular scenario, known as the Win Win Situation,what is usually helpful is an arbitrary mid point, or what we call a table, which both or multiple parties can contribute to, hence you have the phrase
“bringing to the table”. If you have ever had the opportunity to attend a pot luck which requests that each individual brings a dish, you will notice that there is food for the bringer in the form of the dish brought by them as well as food from the other bringers, and each individual who brought experiences the same feeling of plenty.
It an old fashioned yet always effective way of demonstrating what is known as WIN WIN situation.
Back to the mathematical format, the rules are as follows.
BE FRUITFUL AND MULTIPLY.
For those unaware multiplication is an advanced form of addition which is a PLUS (positive)
Division is an advanced form of subtraction which is a MINUS(negative)
It is actually IMPOSSIBLE to create a new through a division of two, which is why being fruitful is a result of multiplication which is the unification of numbers.
In regards to the first order of business, which is men and women, unless you are alien or test tube baby, if you are reading this entry, is is a result of you being alive to read it, based on a choice made by your parents to take the necessary steps which resulted in them each going half on a baby.
If you feel and think a certain way about yourself, you will then know that you the personification of a WIN WIN situation between your parents, as well as your forefathers before you who at some point made the same decision.
Call it Creation.
A different perspective to consider.
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March 30th, 2009
Welcome Home!
Today is another great day, and interestingly enough I was greeted with something that tends to be in limited supply as of late, which is some good news on the Fox Morning News program.
Reports have come in , stating that The Manor, the largest piece of residential
real estate in Los Angeles , is up for grabs for a measly $150 million dollars.
The property was invented in the 1990’s, by the late Aaron Spelling, said to be the most prolific writer and producer of television shows in the entire history of the medium.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aaron_Spelling
He and his wife Candy are known most recently through their infamous family conflicts with their daughter Tori Spelling, who starred in the 90’s hit series Beverly Hills 90210, which was one of a long list of shows created and produced by her father.
In past years, after his passing in 2006, news of his daughters tremendously small inheritance of the enormously wealthy estate was made public, and a public display of disagreement was rampart in many entertainment news outlets. Candy , the widow of Spelling, and their daughter Tori have since been said to have reconciled their differences, which according to most, was initiated through the birth of a child by Tori Spelling.
For whatever reason, at this particular time, the famed estate which sits atop of Hombly Hills in Los Angeles is now on the market.
The way my mind works, I seem to see it as a fitting place for myself and associates to reside, and if President Obama, now resides in the
Tightest House on the east, I see know problem with me occupying the Tightest House out west.
Everything happens for a reason, and since Spelling had the house constructed as a reward for his unique ability to put words and pictures together and tell a great story, perhaps its time for a continuation of the mission, which appears to be exactly what the game is missing. Just my opinion.
A different perspective to consider.
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March 29th, 2009
If you have read my last post, you will probably know that I am not too positive about the concept of reality tv. But, despite of my somewhat negative opinion about it, I will continue to use reality tv for my own exposure. Let me explain to you why.
The urban culture in the Netherlands is very big. Mainly because there are so many different cultures that live together in one little country and have to find a way to get along with each other. The way is a common interest called the
urban culture. So most of the foreign people here, and an occasional wigger, are interested in urban music, clothes, lifestyle, etc. This results in a lot of artists that are trying to break through in the urban entertainment world of Holland, but there is only room for so many of them. Holland is on a tight budget when it comes to entertainment. Having worked as a video model, I know that most of the urban music videos are low budget, which means that the models in it aren’t paid.
Now, how does a model stand out enough so that she gets paid doing the work most of the models do for free? She can, for example, make sure that she is seen a lot and, in a way, create some fame for herself, which gives her an extra appeal. This is where reality tv comes in.
How do you think people would react when they see a model having a photoshoot on live national television for the first time?
They will say that she is an URBAN DUTCHESS !
And how will they react when they see a model that is lying on a table covered in fruit, impersonating a living fruitcake, for the first time?
They will say that she is an URBAN DUTCHESS!
So how can I live a glamorous life on a tight budget? I’m the Urban Dutchess, that’s how!
P.S. Stay tuned if you want to see the second part of my photoshoot on live national television…
Marcia Farias
My website & my Myspace
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March 26th, 2009
If Mark Twain were a Black street pimp, he would have been Iceberg Slim
Amazon.com
Welcome back to the show and your patience during the time of my
Internet Fasting.
What I am going to touch on today is what came about during some time spent soul searching and pondering on what direction to travel in regards to this publication and brand.
I have know for some time that there would come a time where a post on this particular subject matter would become absolutely necessary, and we have arrived at this point as of March 26, 2009.
The relevance of this novel, for me at least, cannot be overstated, and due to the current popularization and perhaps exploitation of the term PIMP, this post should do what is necessary to preserve the integrity of the subject matter.
A brief history of the author can be found at the link below.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Iceberg_Slim
The key areas of focus, which makes this post of extreme importance is that this particular author was writing about his experiences during his time spent in the streets of Chicago and life as a
Gentleman Of Leisure, and history has recently shown that someone with a similar experience was able to use his talents to achieve what many would have considered wishful thinking until the signs showed otherwise.
It also shows that this particular individual who by most popular accounts of his character type would be considered as loathsome, gives accounts his experiences with individuals , and how they reacted to the scenario of how a person of his pedigree actually possessed an above average I.Q.
With an I.Q. of 175,[1] Beck studied at Tuskegee Institute until he dropped out in 1937. Beck started to pimp at age 18 in the brutal Chicago underworld, soon becoming rich and successful in the trade
Following a familiar pattern as well, Robert Beck a.k.a. Iceberg Slim actually left “The Life” after growing tired of incarceration and other side effects of The Game, decided to SQUARE UP, and made his way to Los Angeles in an attempt to reconnect with his mother.
In 1962 he got a job selling insecticide for $70 a week. He had been a natural salesman all of his life. While making a sales pitch to a college professor, he mentioned that he had been a pimp. The professor suggested that he write an autobiography. Beck wrote the book, Pimp: The Story of My Life, in three months.
During my time spent conducting self analysis and inventory, I often wonder if what has been stated by others regarding my stance is true, which is that I have some gripe or bone to pick regarding individuals who tend to use things from black or minority culture as a source of entertainment through the use of mockery and in some cases for monetary gain. The facts are, that, these assessments are absolutely correct, and it is simply due to the fact that my knowledge and awareness of the astronomical value of that which is made a mockery of, which actually leads to decadence of ones cultural heritage.
What is also important to note is that while this trend disturbs me, I do not hold the individuals who behave in this way accountable, but rather the individuals who themselves are a by product of the culture ,who do not effectively demonstrate its value do to their own selfish pursuits of fame and fortune.
It is for that reason, that I take responsibility as well as the initiative to provide a solution for the problem.
The fact is that a majority of things that one may find attractive and intriguing in regards to Hip Hop culture actually have their roots in this novel of discussion as well as other discourses of expression from the days prior to when a thing known as Hip Hop culture even existed. Everything starts off somewhere, and it is up to individuals to pay homage to the source in order for the integrity to be preserved.
With that said, I hereby declare, the following stance.
Party like a rock star. yet rock stars have been shown to desire to party like rappers, and rappers have been shown to desire to party like Pimps.
As For Pimps, its a REAL LIFE activity, which in actuality AINT EASY, EVEN ONLINE!
Examples are shown through various public figures.
Ice T who’s name and image are by products of Ice Berg Slim Literature as well as Ice Cube and many others whom are notable in Pop Culture can be counted in the equation.
Interestingly enough, this particular novel has been one of controversy in Los Angeles intellectual property circles, as the rights for a screenplay development of this story have been highly coveted for many years.
In 1973 one of his reality novels, Trick Baby, was adapted as a blaxploitation movie of the same name, directed by Larry Yust.
A movie adaptation of Pimp has been planned for a long time. There were announcements of a movie directed by Bill Duke and staring Ice Cube; that project was put on hold. In 2004 rapper Pras acquired the rights to produce a movie based on the book
For those of your who may have an interest in this and other works of the author, thanks to the Internet, it is no longer a challenge to locate and acquire the work as it once was in times past, yet for me individually, it was part of the intrigue of this type of literature as one of the most popular distribution outlets for the novel was in the form of Prison Libraries across the U.S. as it is known as a Jail House Classic.
In closing, the most important part of the scenario for me, is in regards to the fact that while the novel was created with the intention of steering individuals away from the lifestyle being described, it is a known fact that it has turned many individuals on to the actual lifestyle with disastrous results for many over time.
Out of all the pieces of literature that I have read, I can now confirm that this is the one that has had the greatest influence on me as a motivating factor in exploring the power and value of written and spoken word, which is what you are experiencing in the form of this online publication with a similar name.
Like anything else in life, I believe that nothing is truly inherently good or bad, but rather the intention and application of and by the individual taking the action and holding the desire .
The title of the novel is
PIMP- The Story Of My Life.
Due to the fact that it was brought into existence upon the recommendation of a college professor, I question whether or not it is to say he (Robert Beck) wrote a story of his life as a PIMP, or if it was his decision to PIMP his life story.
A different perspective to consider.
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March 23rd, 2009
A greater demand for quality goods and services along with first class preferred treatment.
I know this is going to cause some blood to boil for some, so I just ask that you feel it boiling because of a great business decision on our part.
Even Online, It Aint Easy, and for those who may actually agree with the stance it is simply….
A different perspective to consider.
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