Jealousy. It’s an emotion we all feel from time to time. It’s ok as long as we don’t act on it. And as long as there is nobody around to make it worse. Something that isn’t always the case.

Like the other day when I was working on a photoshoot. The photographer suddenly stopped taking pictures and said; “No wonder … (what’s-her-name) didn’t want me to work with you. She doesn’t compare to you at all.” What happened was that a girl that I had had a videoshoot with years ago had told him not to work with me, because regarding to the photographer she was jealous. When I said that she had no reason to be jealous, the photographer answered by saying that she just needed to get her life in order so she could see what a great girl she actually is and blah blah blah. Well that’s very nice, but if you would have just told her that, you would have saved me this little drama. Ain’t that right?

Men that aren’t pimps like you (readers) are sometimes just don’t know what to say to whom. For instance, this guy I was seeing. He was receiving messages from another girl. Obviously I got a little jealous. But when I said something about it, he said that he wasn’t interested in her at all. He wanted to be with me and blah blah blah. Again that’s very nice, but why don’t you just tell her that so she knows not to expect anything from you?

Don’t get me wrong, I love men. Especially the ones that talk to me and tell me stuff. But some things are just meant to be told to her…

Marcia Farias,

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