The Secrets to Unlocking your Success: (part 2) Ditch the Losers

What have you done for me lately?

 

You’ve heard it thousands and thousands of times. Life is short. But no matter how many sad stories we hear about people who die unexpectedly, or at a young age, we still don’t fully grasp the concept. And we spend our lives doing things we are unhappy with, being with people who don’t have our best interest in mind and doing things we are ashamed of, for whatever reasons.

This next step in the search for our SUCCESS is ridding our lives of the poisons which could prevent that. Sort of a detox if you will. In order to make room for SUCCESS we must first clear some space.

 

1. Identify those who are not for you.

• An easy way is this: mention something you have been thinking about doing, something that may sound a little hard, or outlandish, but that could help you better your life, in any way. The reactions you get will help you immediately spot the ‘haters’. Those who encourage you would actually like to see you do better, keep them. They will cheer yo on all the way to the top, maybe even come with. while those who down your idea just want you to stay stagnated with their bum asses. 

 

    2. Separate Yourself from them

       While this may seem easy in theory, putting this into practice can be a little difficult. The reason for that is, these people are sometimes our parents, best “friends”, or even significant others. If this is the case, you may not be able to get completely away from them, but you can distance yourself. If you actually show signs that you are trying to better your life, they may realize the error in their unsupporting ways, or they could still be on their bum shit. 

Try to keep people around you that need you as much as you need them. If you are overly needed, you may feel overwhelmed and suffocated, which are two states of mind that go directly against  your success. It may sound a little selfish, but at the end of the day, YOU ARE STUCK WITH YOU. and while everyone else can ditch you, you are left to deal with the person that you have become, or are becoming. Do you really want that person to be a miserable fuck?

 

Success is a State of Mind..