Has The Internet Become A REST HAVEN For Haters?
Now that we have your attention, which is much appreciated and highly valued, the time has come to make your decision to tune in to this Gamestream Media channel a wise choice.
I feel the best thing to do is first go ahead and give you the skinny on the scenario. I have known for some time that a time would come when certain subjects would need to be addressed by knowledgeable experts, and I have in times past spoken on this subject. The best way to describe it, is like what I see and know about pouplar religion. Whenever we get individuals who wish to jack our slang, and implement it into their own ideologies in order to seem hip and cool and even make a buck while they are at it, the results are that the slang looses its original meaning and value, and even worse leads to results that can only be adressed and resolved by individuals who created the slang in the first place, so on our end, its a benefit as limited supply equals increased demand equals increasedvalue of suplly, you know, like capitalism.
Some have even gone as far as creating what is known as an urban dictionary which assist those who desire to have our slang make sense, as a google search of the term HATER led me directly to this link.
Back to the lecture at hand, which is in regards to the subject of
HATERS, I have considered working towards having an application developed to query the amount of times that this term is used on popular social networking sites, yet if you already have rhythm to make all go, the need to develop an algo-rithm is nullified.;) The Great Albert Einstein states that problems cannot be solved with the same level of awareness that created them. Regular ole R.B. says that the level of awareness that creates the problem IS the level of awareness of Albert Einstein and those who believe him to be a special person, simply because they have been told so, another way of saying MAKE BELIEVE!
Some have a theory of relativity (E=MC2), yet in the hood, we say that
everythang is everythang. Whichever works best for you I guess!
Lets look at what we have here from the urban dictionary.
hater -2347 up, 267 down
A person that simply cannot be happy for another person’s success. So rather than be happy they make a point of exposing a flaw in that person.
Hating, the result of being a hater, is not exactly jealousy. The hater doesnt really want to be the person he or she hates, rather the hater wants to knock somelse down a notch.
Susan: You know, Kevin from accounting is doing very well. He just bought a house in a very nice part of town.
Jane (hater): If he is doing so well why does he drive that ’89 Taurus?
Ok, let me get this one out of the way as today is already looking to be a very busy one.
The actual term HATER comes from a prior and more important term that adds a word that makes the term relevant, and the term is
Player Hater , and no, it is NOT pronounced
playa hata perhaps because it would show up in the spell check as incorrect requiring one to make corrections.
The most important part of the term IS the word PLAYER, as it is the key ingredient, so lets refer to the um…..non urban dictionary.com Ã‚Â for a definition of the word.
play?er??[pley-er] Show IPA
1. a person or thing that plays.
2. a person who takes part or is skilled in some game or sport.
3. a person who plays parts on the stage; an actor.
4. a performer on a musical instrument.
5. Informal. a participant, as in a conference or business deal.
6. a sound- or image-reproducing machine: a record player; a cassette player; a videodisc player.
7. a gambler.
8. Slang. a person engaged in illicit or illegal activity, esp. a pimp.
9. a mechanical device by which a musical instrument, as a player piano, is played automatically.
Entry # 8 is some COLD GAME, so shout out to dictionary.com for keepin it thorough!
With that out of the way, lets now get into the meat of the matter. What I do tend to see many people (young women) attempting to do, is actually create imaginary haters, in an attempt to feel like a player. The logic of the scenario, while appearing correct is actually the game in reverse because the success comes before the negativity and not after. Would you actually feel disturbed by the lack of success of another person? Perhaps you would, because I myself do, yet for where you are in the plot, chances are that you wouldn’t seek to even pay attention to someone who is not showing you signs of success in the first place. What will actually happen in this scenario, is that a person will most likely create a false image of themselves on the Internet, which makes authenticity checking a challenge, then become addicted to that false image that they believe people to be hating on, yet interestingly enough, just like death, it (the image) is something that you cannot take with you, which would lead to a person hiding behind that false image, and trapped within the confines in which it exists. Deep aint it? Ã‚Â None the less, I can simply now make a declaration that the following types of statements are NOT Keepin it “P” but the exact opposite.
So kids, if you really want to win, dont do it like this anymore. Focus your attention on what it is that you really want in regards to results, and if you then want to spend sometime talking about the hate you receive because of it, you will have that option, although it would actually take away time from the creation and enjoyment of those results in the first place. Long story short, its really true what you have heard, and its especially true in regards to the subject of HATERS which is as follows…
It Takes One To Know One.
“enlightened”, and spiritually advanced, new age thinking types, who use cool sounding words like Ã‚Â universe, manifestation, energy, etc. Ã‚Â yet for some reason, always still feel the need to come and check up on what I may be running my mouth about, you are in luck as there really is something here for everyone, and since I am feeling generous today, I will share a solution in your language and make it even more simple.
Emotion is energy in motion, and it travels in different directions, in your case, positive and negative.
All negative emotion, including, but not limited to, hate, anger ,lust, envy, and so on, stem from one key negative emotion which is known as FEAR.
All fear, which is the root of all negative emotion, stems from
FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN.. Reason?
Just like ya momma told you,
Knowledge is Power .
Those who lack it, fear those who posses it, even though it all comes from the unknown in the first place, which is why you were given a mind to LEARN with.
To really knock it out of the ball park, Manny Rodriguez style, with steroids included, if you really want to trace it down to its roots, in regards to what a person fears, it is usually The Truth. The truth at the root, will be shown as what a person REALLY feels and thinks about their own self, so the real cause of the fear is the fear that one has in regards to belief in themselves, which at times shows to be that they are simply NOT GOOD ENOUGH, another way of saying INADEQUATE.
Our greatest fear is not that we are inadequate,
but that we are powerful beyond measure.
The greatest fear really IS inadequacy, as anyone who even makes or agrees with the above statement and seeks it for encouragement is shown as trying to cover up the feeling of inadequacy with a contridictory thought, also known as
Psyching Yourself Up, and since the proof is in the put in,the Ã‚Â only thing to do now, since that is what a person claims to believe,
(Powerful Beyond Your wildest imagination) is to take action based on that belief. Does a child prove to themselevs that they can walk by walking, or by quoting a phrase which says that they can walk, while contemplating taking steps?
So again, back to the subject of HATERS, it is caused, usually by a persons fear of their own inability to take action to get a desirable result, while observing others who have overcome the fear or never had it in the first place, Ã‚Â making the Internet, an ideal REST HAVEN for HATERS!
How to get this issue resolved?
Iuunooo, I guess you might could just stay tuned.
I have to run, so some one please take care of the spell and grammar checking so that corrections can be made later!
Love Yall Lots.
A different perspective to consider.
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